That God May Be All in All

A Biblical and Creedal Case for the Final Salvation of All in Christ

by Matthew Friend, Th.D.

About This Book

A woman stands beside her husband’s grave. He was kind, decent, and faithful to her for fifty years, and he never once professed faith in Christ. She turns to her pastor and asks the only question that matters to her: is there any hope for him? This book is written for her, and for the pastor who could not bring himself to say no.

The argument here is that the God revealed in Jesus Christ will, in the end, bring every person He has ever made to free and saving faith in His Son. That claim is old, and it has a name in the Greek of the early church: apokatastasis, the restoration of all things. It was held by some of the most respected theologians of the first five centuries. This book makes the case for it from the biblical text itself, working through the universal-scope passages of Paul, the prophets, John, and Revelation, and then through the meaning of the judgment words in their original languages.

It also takes the objections seriously. Eight chapters do nothing but face the hard texts. The sheep and the goats, the lake of fire, the unforgivable sin, the narrow gate, the fixed chasm, the appointment to die once and then be judged: each is stated at full strength, in the words its best defenders use, and then answered. The one philosophical objection that has real force, whether a free creature could refuse God forever, gets a chapter of its own and an honest answer rather than a confident one.

Two fences guard this hope throughout. The first is that this is not the pluralism that shares its name. The hope defended here keeps the cross, the creeds, the authority of Scripture, the reality of judgment, and the exclusivity of Christ. Nothing is saved apart from Him. The second is humility. The case is held with conviction, but the author says plainly where his confidence ends.

The book is written for pastors asked impossible questions at gravesides, for seminarians who have heard universalism dismissed in a sentence and want to see the actual argument, for grieving Christians carrying a silence about someone they loved, and for skeptics who were told the Christian God consigns most of His children to endless torment and found they could not believe it. Every chapter is written in plain English. The scholarship lives in the footnotes.

Part I — Framing

The hope this book defends, and the line that separates it from its counterfeits.

Chapter 1 Introduction: The Larger Hope Opens with a widow at her husband's grave asking whether there is any hope for a good man who never professed faith. States the book's thesis plainly and sets the two fences that guard it: this hope keeps the cross and the creeds, and it is held with conviction but without overclaim.

Chapter 2 The Two Universalisms The boundary chapter. It separates the hope this book defends from the counterfeit that shares its name, showing that biblical universalism keeps the cross, the reality of judgment, and the exclusivity of Christ, while pluralism gives all three away.

Part II — The Character of God

The engine of the whole case: who God is, and how far the cross reaches.

Chapter 3 The God Who Wills All to Be Saved The engine of the whole case. If God is as Jesus reveals Him, and if He genuinely desires all people to be saved, then the character of God itself points toward a universal end. Works through the universal-saving-will texts and the argument from divine love.

Chapter 4 The Cross That Reconciles the World Takes up the reach of the atonement. If Christ died for the sins of the whole world and reconciles all things to God through the blood of His cross, the question becomes whether that work finally accomplishes what it intends.

Part III — The Biblical Case

The universal-scope passages, from Paul and the prophets to John and Revelation.

Chapter 5 In Adam, In Christ: Romans 5 and 1 Corinthians 15 "Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men." — Romans 5:18 The heart of the Pauline case. Paul sets two 'alls' in parallel: as in Adam all die, so in Christ shall all be made alive. This chapter asks whether the second 'all' can honestly be read as narrower than the first.

Chapter 6 Every Knee, All Things: Philippians 2, Ephesians 1, Colossians 1 "At the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." — Philippians 2:10–11 Examines the great hymnic passages where every knee bows and all things are gathered up in Christ. The key question is whether that universal confession is glad worship or grudging surrender, and what Paul's own vocabulary allows.

Chapter 7 The Restoration of All Things: The Old Testament Hope “All the ends of the earth shall remember and turn to the LORD, and all the families of the nations shall worship before you.” — Psalm 22:27 Traces the hope back into the Hebrew Scriptures, where the psalmists and prophets see all the ends of the earth turning to the Lord, and where God promises to restore even Sodom. The New Testament hope has deep Old Testament roots.

Chapter 8 God So Loved the World: The Gospel and Letters of John "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life." — John 3:16 (ESV) Works through the Johannine writings, where God's love is aimed at the world and the lifted-up Christ promises to draw all people to Himself. Handles the perishing and believing language of John honestly alongside the universal-scope texts.

Chapter 9 The Open Gates: Revelation's Vision of the Healed Nations “Its gates will never be shut by day—and there will be no night there.” — Revelation 21:25 Reads the final vision of Revelation, where the gates of the city are never shut, the leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations, and the Spirit and the Bride are still saying 'Come' after the lake of fire has appeared.

Part IV — Judgment, Hell, and the Fire

What the judgment words mean, where the dead are, and what the fire is for.

Chapter 10 What the Words Mean: Aiōn, Aiōnios, and Kolasis The word-study chapter. Examines what aiōn and aiōnios meant in Greek usage and in the Septuagint, and the difference between kolasis (corrective punishment) and timōria (retributive punishment) in Matthew 25:46.

Chapter 11 The Geography of the Dead and the Fire That Is God Distinguishes Sheol, Hades, and Gehenna, which English Bibles have often flattened into one word. Develops the divine-presence model, in which the fire of hell is not separation from God but the unveiled presence of God met by an unready soul.

Chapter 12 Hell as Purification, Not Endless Torment Argues that the fire of judgment in Scripture burns to refine rather than to destroy without end. Sets restorative justice against purely retributive justice and asks which better fits the God revealed in Christ.

Part V — How the Offer Reaches All

The mechanism: how the offer of Christ can reach every soul ever born.

Chapter 13 Grace at the Threshold and Beyond Takes up the mechanism question: how the offer of Christ can reach every soul. Covers the encounter at the threshold of death, the intermediate state as a place of continued pursuit, and the descent of Christ to the dead.

Chapter 14 The Last and Fullest Offer Reads the last judgment as the fullest and most personal encounter with Christ rather than the closing of a door. Draws on optimal grace and middle knowledge to show how God can win a free response from every person.

Part VI — The Witness of the Church

The ancient roots of the larger hope, and the Origen question handled honestly.

Chapter 15 The Witness of the Early Church Surveys the ancient witness, from Gregory of Nyssa and Origen to Isaac of Nineveh, and handles the Origen question honestly: what the Fifth Ecumenical Council did and did not condemn, and why the hope was never simply ruled out.

Part VII — Answering the Objections

Every major text and argument raised against the larger hope, stated at full strength and answered.

Chapter 16 The Death-and-Judgment Texts “It is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment.” — Hebrews 9:27 The first of the objection chapters. Works through the texts most often used to close the door at death, including the appointment to die once and the fixed chasm in the parable of the rich man and Lazarus.

Chapter 17 The Closed Door and the Unforgivable Sin “Anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come.” — Matthew 12:32 Examines the sin that is not forgiven in this age or the age to come, together with the shut-door parables. Asks what the phrase 'or in the age to come' implies, and whether a closed door is the same thing as a door that never opens.

Chapter 18 Wrath, Destruction, and Dying in Your Sins 2 Thessalonians 1:5–10; John 3:16–18, 36; John 8:21–24 Faces the language of wrath and destruction directly. Examines everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, the wrath that remains, and Jesus' warning that some will die in their sins.

Chapter 19 “Eternal Punishment”: The Sheep and the Goats (Matthew 25) “And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.” — Matthew 25:46 (ESV) Meets the strongest single objection head-on. Works through the parable of the sheep and the goats and the grammatical parallel between eternal life and eternal punishment, without dodging the difficulty.

Chapter 20 The Lake of Fire and the Second Death “The lake of fire is the second death.” — Revelation 20:14 Reads the lake of fire and the second death in their apocalyptic setting. Asks what Revelation's imagery of unending smoke means in a book that also ends with open gates and healed nations.

Chapter 21 The Narrow Gate and the Few Who Are Saved "Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few." — Matthew 7:13–14 Handles the fewness sayings. Examines who Jesus was addressing, what a warning is designed to accomplish, and whether 'few find it' describes the final tally or the present road.

Chapter 22 Can the Devil Be Redeemed? The Fate of Satan and the Fallen Angels The hardest edge of the case. Asks whether 'all things' includes Satan and the fallen angels, surveys what Scripture actually says about them, and states where the author's confidence ends.

Chapter 23 Free Will and the Possibility of Final Refusal The strongest philosophical objection, faced squarely. If love cannot coerce, could a creature hold out against God forever? The chapter answers it while naming honestly the one question the author leaves open.

Part VIII — Conclusion

The cumulative case, and the answer to the question the book exists to address.

Chapter 24 Conclusion: The Cumulative Case for the Larger Hope Gathers every thread into one cumulative argument, returns to the widow and the pastor from Chapter 1, and answers the practical question the whole book raises: if this hope is true, why evangelize now?

Reference Appendices

Six reference documents for readers who want to check the work, look up a term, or find where a passage is treated.

Appendix A Scripture Index Every biblical passage the book discusses, arranged in canonical order, with the principal treatment marked and a live link to the chapter that handles it.

Appendix B Annotated Bibliography The sources behind the argument, each with a short annotation describing what the work is, where its author stands, and how this book uses it, including the critics the book answers.

Appendix C Glossary of Key Terms Plain-English definitions of every technical term the book uses, from apokatastasis and aiōnios to optimal grace and conditional immortality, each linked to the chapter that develops it.

Appendix D Quick-Reference Table A fast lookup for the whole debate. One table maps the universal-scope texts, another maps the objection texts against the traditional reading, this book's reading, and the chapter that argues it.

Appendix E The Perimortem Offer of Salvation Gathers into one place the case for an encounter with Christ at the very threshold of death, including the final-decision hypothesis and a careful assessment of what near-death research does and does not establish.

Appendix F The Postmortem Offer of Salvation Gathers the case for the continued offer of Christ beyond death, covering the descent to the dead, the intermediate state as a place of pursuit, and the last judgment read as the fullest offer rather than a closing door.

About the author and this site. Matthew Friend holds a Th.D. from Trinity Theological Seminary. That God May Be All in All is published at GraceAfterDeath.com, a project devoted to what Scripture teaches about death, judgment, and the reach of God’s grace. The complete text is free to read.